Dealing with Children during Separation or Divorce


It is difficult to deal with children when couples separate. Each parent usually wants to protect their child. We share our insights on how to keep your children's best interests in mind. 

The first thing that a parents after separation should learn is not to fight in front of the children. Don’t you think that they have had enough during the marriage/relationship of watching their parents fight?  It is a difficult time for the children – it should be as harmonious as possible. Any discussions should be away from the children.

A good lawyer will walk you through trying to reach a resolution with the father/mother.

There are many books on the market that help parents navigate through these difficult times. The Family Court has two booklets: Questions & Answers about separation for children and about separating. The links are below to the PDF versions of the books. They are a good read and should be the first step when parents separate.


There are also parenting courses run by various organisations at different times.

If you need a good lawyer to navigate through Divorce, Separation, Property, Children, Lisa Ruggero-Salerno or Daniella Ruggero are Accredited Family Law Specialists, with decades of experience in Family Law.

The journey is never easy but it can be made easier.

Just because the parents have separated, why do the children have to suffer?

As a parent you should protect your child/children from toxic separation.



If you need advice, help, or mediation contact either Lisa Ruggero Salerno or Daniella Ruggero or a member of their team for a consultation. Phone 02 9264 7244 for our City office or 02 9667 1271 for our Mascot office.